Author: Aging Wisdom
If your goal is to “age in place,” now is the time to consider some remodeling. And no room demands more physical agility than the kitchen. It’s impossible to foresee how your body may change over time. But making a few thoughtful accommodations now could extend your comfort and independence. Plus, such an investment may well forestall or eliminate a move to assisted living. That’s spending wisely! …
What if your life suddenly changed. Do you know who would step up to help? Regardless of whether you are a solo ager, part of a couple who hasn’t discussed “what if” scenarios, or someone with family nearby, it’s best to identify help before needs arise. Making the effort now to talk about your wishes and expectations helps create clarity, both for you and for the people who care about you. …
While cognitive impairment is not inevitable with age, the possibility of experiencing Alzheimer’s disease or another type of dementia makes advance planning an important and empowering step. This doesn’t mean resigning yourself to decline. Planning allows you to stay in the driver’s seat of your life rather than leave your future to chance or to others. …
If you like to plan ahead, you understand the value of having the right resources in place when life inevitably brings changes. Consider choosing to make professional care management part of your proactive life plan in the same way you chose to rely on trusted legal and financial counselors. …
Between ages sixty-five and seventy-five (“young-old”), you’re typically independent and clear about what matters most to you. That makes now the ideal time to talk with your family or chosen decision makers about your wishes for your future. Waiting until age eighty-five often means those conversations are driven by crisis, fear, or urgency. Starting as early as you can allows for calm and more thoughtful conversations. …
Aging brings change. Some of it is expected and manageable; some of it deserves closer attention. Have you noticed slower recall, needing more light to read, or taking a little longer to recover from exercise? These are common, normal parts of aging. What’s not normal? Changes such as getting lost in familiar places, poor balance, and difficulty managing everyday tasks. Knowing the difference is important. …
As many of us have discovered throughout our lives, spending time outdoors isn’t just “nice.” It often feels fundamentally healing, no matter our age.
Research supports this. Time spent in nature has been shown to decrease cortisol, a stress hormone, and boost the immune system. It can reduce depression and improve attention. It can lower blood pressure and improve sleep quality. The studies are so compelling that some doctors have even written prescriptions for a weekly outing. If you’re feeling stressed, consider a little nature therapy. …
An advance directive is one of the most important planning documents you can create to ensure your healthcare wishes are followed if you can’t speak for yourself. Don’t wait for illness or old age to make one! Putting your wishes in writing now means that if an accident or sudden health event occurs, your values guide your care. An advance directive serves not only end-of-life decisions. It provides clarity and control and eases the emotional burden on those who care about you. …
If you are presently partnered, chances are that household duties and responsibilities—everything from running the dishwasher to managing finances—are split between you. That means that you might not be prepared to seamlessly take over should your partner be rendered incapable by a debilitating accident or disease, or even death. In other words, sudden singlehood.
As a proactive planner, you try to anticipate the needs of your later years. But not everything is predictable. Of course, it’s very difficult to contemplate losing someone you’re so close to. As the adage goes, hope for the best and prepare for the worst. No matter how the years roll out, you’ll feel more confident taking extra steps now so you’re ready to approach things solo should the need arise. …
Back by popular demand, it’s our Holiday Gift Guide—packed with thoughtful ideas to spark joy and make the season a little brighter.
Throughout the year our team gathers recommendations from clients, their families and friends, and our circle of trusted allied professionals. The result? A curated collection of gifts that delight, engage, entertain, and comfort. …